Choose: Love Yourself, Hate Yourself

Choose: Love Yourself, Hate Yourself

Over the years I have met so many people (gay and straight) who do not like themselves.  At different times in my life, I could relate to this but not anymore. There is a point that can be reached in one’s life when you QUESTION the thoughts that happen to occur to your mind and when you do that, you get an ah-ha that opens up a whole new way of living in the world and that new way of living in…

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My Name is David, and I’m a Joy-a-holic

My Name is David, and I’m a Joy-a-holic

My name is David, and I’m a Joy-a-holic. I’ve been using joy for, oh, most of my life and finally realized how it was affecting my life, my friends, my family, and my career. It has affected all my relationships, and completely influenced every area of my life in ways that have been so long in the making, and I’m finally having the guts to admit that giggling and laughing were my gateways that I…

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Print This Poster and Live It

Print This Poster and Live It

We have a new poster that is sure to cause a firestorm of controversy, but only if you’re one of the haters, fakers, and takers. So! Print out the poster from this link and enjoy pissing off the devil — because “the thief comes only to kill, steal, and destroy, but LOVE came so that you may have and enjoy your life in abundance to the full, until it overflows! (John 10:10)

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Who Will You Inspire Today Just by Being a GOOD GAY?

Who Will You Inspire Today Just by Being a GOOD GAY?

So many people are confused about being gay — including gay people. When I was growing up and “coming out,” I was confused, myself, because I saw what other gay people were doing and I thought that was what it meant to be “gay.” If I didn’t like the way another gay person looked or walked or talked or what they were doing, then I thought to myself, “Oh, I must not be gay because I’m not like…

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What We Are Here For…

What We Are Here For…

“We are here to heal, not harm. We are here to love, not hate. We are here to create, not destroy.”

– Anthony Douglas Williams

How do you communicate the message that it is GOOD to get to know you?

How do you communicate the idea that it is GOOD to date you?

How do you communicate the fact (!) that it is GOOD to have fun with you, love you, be with you, make love to you, create with you, enjoy…

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You Are Complete Already

You Are Complete Already

One of the keys to having a happy life is to KNOW that you are whole and complete whether you’re in a relationship or not. For young people, separating from one’s parents often doesn’t happen in healthy ways and so the “attachment” is merely transferred to the object of your desire (and your hormones don’t help! LOL!). This is what causes TROUBLE! If you find yourself in that space, say out loud…

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Remember This…

Remember This…

“There is a vitality, a life force, a quickening that is translated through you into action, and there is only one of you in all time. This expression is unique, and if you block it, it will never exist through any other medium; and be lost. The world will not have it.

It is not your business to determine how good it is, not how it compares with other expression. It is your business to keep it…

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